On mindless thoughts!
Just writing about something that may not make any sense but it just mindless thoughts that occupies me when I have had bit too much to drink on a Friday night! To me this is a period of cooling down, get my body to breakdown the alcohol, drink more water in between and enjoy the cool air from the AC. Today is a freaking hot day in Singapore!On average guys think about sex every 8s, I believe it is more so for gay guys? Correct me if I am wrong! :-) Does this mean that we do not have anything else to look for in life other than to surf porn, watch more porn, publish our profile on the net to get hook for sex and just think about sex (No wonder the straight community are so worried about us because all we think is about sex!) What happens when we reach middle age and beyond? What do we look for? Love and companionship? Would that be too late? Or nothing is too late?
Which brings me to my next mindless thoughts - promiscuity. Is this an intrinsic part of us human beings or more true for guys (gay or straight)? Is this a behaviour that one can change if we get into a serious relationship or is this a short term abstention? Only that the temptation of sex will kill the relationship? Which leads to my next question - if one is promiscuous - are one be a good guy? Can one still have valid morals that one can impart?
Why I post this question here is just the other day, my volunteer buddy mentioned to me that he knows of a cute doctor that practices a promiscuous lifestyle. During his day - he works the rounds, look after his patients and care for them but he is just promiscuous. So is he good guy that an ordinary folk can look up to? Anyway the doctor didn't think that he was a good guy!
And my last question for the night, is open relationship the way to go for a gay relationship then or is there a fallacy behind this relationship? Monagamous or open? What do we search for? Can love and respect co-exist in this kind of relationship?
Your thoughts.....
Labels: Rambling
posted by Maximus Leo @ 12:03 AM
4 Comments:
I still hold out hope for gay monogamy. Sadly, I've yet to experience it.
Well, to be completely honest, there is no single model case for relationships or sex or whatever. As Plato says, there is no perfect thing on this planet. That's why you will have to see what you run into and how you deal with things. You know what I mean? I know that's scary but there is no definite answer. You will just have to wait and see is my motto :-) Relax and hang in there dissolve alcohol.
The doctor is just doing his job, but he has a life too.
Damn, you made me think of sex again! :)
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